in your life, there will at least one time that you forget yourself for someone, asking for no result, no company, no ownership nor love just ask for meeting you in my most beautiful years 　　 一生至少该有一次，为了某个人而忘了自己，不求有结果，不求同行，不求曾经拥有，甚至不求你爱我。只求在我最美的年华里，遇到你。

love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow when the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere friend is who can give you strength at last 　 爱情是灯，友情是影子，当灯灭了，你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友，是在最后可以给你力量的人。　

one may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. when you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherishthe people you love. 　　 一个人一生可以爱上很多的人，等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后，你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富，它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。

we all live in the past. we take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone. 我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中，人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人，用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人，再用一天的时间去爱上一个人，到最后呢，却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。

happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one’s hand it’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone’s love when you need love 幸福，不是长生不老，不是大鱼大肉，不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃，想被爱的时候有人来爱你。

i don’t think that when people grow up, they will become more broad-minded and can accept everything conversely, i think it’s a selecting process, knowing what’s the most important and what’s the least and then be a simple man　　 我不觉得人的心智成熟是越来越宽容涵盖，什么都可以接受。相反，我觉得那应该是一个逐渐剔除的过程，知道自己最重要的是什么，知道不重要的东西是什么。而后，做一个纯简的人。

i know someone in the world is waiting for me, although i’ve no idea of who he is but i feel happy every day for this 　 我知道这世上有人在等我，但我不知道我在等谁，为了这个，我每天都非常快乐。

i love you not for who you are, but for who i am before you 我爱你不是因为你是谁，而是我在你面前可以是谁。

if you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it’s called burden-bearing. pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love. 　 举得起放得下的叫举重，举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜，大多数人的爱情，都是负重的。

when you are young, you may want several love experiences. but as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. you need time to know, to forgive and to love. all this needs a very big mind. 年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱，但是随着年龄的增长，终于领悟到爱一个人，就算用一辈子的时间，还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人，体谅这个人，直到爱上为止，是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。